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Would you date someone who was molested as a child?
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It depends on their personality. A lot.
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[quote="Conrannex"]Again, I'm using this more as a template/example for the subject. I don't [b]
care[/b] about 'prejudicing' anyone. Not to mention using the term 'prejudice' in this subject is just clearly bullshit. That's like saying "You shouldn't tease me about falling over a rock, that's prejudice!". Yeah, something happened to them, it wasn't really their fault, so what? It's happened and things have happened as a result of it. It's not prejudice. If somebody has a mental issue due to being touched or whatever, they still have a mental issue and it's not something you really want in a relationship, is it?
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ConrannexI personally wouldn't if I knew before hand
A prejudice is a prejudgment, an assumption made about someone or something before having adequate knowledge to be able to do so with guaranteed accuracy
You just said you wouldn't have a relationship with them and you made that decision without knowing them, you also assumed they would have mental issues.
You are prejudice.
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Replying to #42
I'm sure he cares about this.
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It was more of a response to his stupid comment about prejudice that made no sense to my comment. I also tried to explain in better terms what I meant by prejudice because he doesn't seem to understand it properly. Even in his response he is still assuming the person will have mental issues.
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Replying to #44
He's not. It seems pretty apparent to me that he's speaking in an "in the event that this person has mental issues" scenario.
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So why does he say:
ConrannexI personally wouldn't if I knew before hand
He doesn't say "in the event that this person has mental issues", its a straight no, and that is prejudice.
Of course he has every right to make that decision, but if we go through life dismissing things before we even understand them its a pretty poor way of living and you will miss out on a lot. That person could end up been a perfect match for him but he will never get the chance to see.
For him to say "using the term prejudice in this subject is bullshit" is just clearly wrong because it
is relevant.
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tl;dr
Cahos Rahne VelozaWith us men, we can say *cough* lie *cough* that we're still virgins even if we'd screwed 20 or more chicks already & get away with it
lol'd
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I'd say hell yeah I would, but im sure the female would be quite dispicable if she molested anyone. So I guess I'd have to say no.
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Replying to #48
Did you read the thread title? Or even the thread?
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Replying to #49
Just did lol. Well nevermind than. I wouldn't date a ugly chick, so therefore I wouldn't know if she did. But if it was a average/sexy chick. I'm sure she wouldn't have raped anyone. I'm sure anyone would let it happen.
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Replying to #50
Apparently you have no idea about the topic?
Molesting - the act of subjecting someone to unwanted or improper sexual advances or activity (especially women or children)
You're kind of pissing me off. My brother was molested as a child and has mental scars, but is doing way better than he was a few years ago. I think he will be a good man in the future if his red hair doesn't get him into trouble.
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Well...no I wouldn't. Women don't rape anyone, unless they are ugly and old.The topic's creator is a male. So am I. I'm just replying as to what I feel about dating a molestor. I sure and the hell wouldn't date a guy. No offense anyone, just wouldn't.
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[quote="Conrannex"]You butt monkey. "[b]Would you date someone WHO WAS molested AS A child."
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I would date a girl who was molested as a child. They are a person as well. And if they're awesome, then that's fine with me.
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Maybe...I'm undecided....date...
But, I most certainly would NOT have a child with her :I
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Oh ok. Well, yeah I don't see why not...they didn't do anything wrong.
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doughboy · #55Maybe...I'm undecided....date...
But, I most certainly would NOT have a child with her :I
... Look at the title carefully.
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tyson_rss · #50Just did lol. Well nevermind than. I wouldn't date a ugly chick, so therefore I wouldn't know if she did. But if it was a average/sexy chick. I'm sure she wouldn't have raped anyone. I'm sure anyone would let it happen.
That's not the question here.
The question is if you would date anyone that was "molested AS a child".
Not a molester....
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I already corrected myself with one of my posts above. People's brains automatically assume it says "Would you date someone who molested a child?" for some reason. For me it was because I didn't read the first post or I just skimmed it. I just wanted to reply I guess, haha.
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Replying to #59
Yeah, I even saw the topic before but read it to fast, or only in parts...
Conrannex · #57... Look at the title carefully.
Oh, I see...
I can be pretty supportive when it comes to issues such as that...
She's gonna have a shrink for a boyfriend, so that may help :I
She may go physco on me though, so that may be a +1 in my case...
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