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What should I Do.
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Hello, everyone ;DWell, I have this problem for almost pup to three years. I'll state the symptoms below. I wish to know what mental problems I have. I got two ECGs done and nothing is wrong with my heart. I even got hyperventilation once and got admitted to the Emergency department.1) I hate to make phone calls to strangers, even if I phone my friend or family members, I would get
an increased heartbeat initially and often feel the urge to avoid calling.
2) I rarely go outdoors unless I am needed or working or etc.., I even avoid stepping out of my
house just to buy food, instead I cook at home ;D
3) Everytime I go out alone, I hate the feeling when someone looks at me. I feel so uneasy.
4) I also hate to go to social gatherings.
5) Occasionally, I would breathe faster then usual, or I would get mild chest pain that last for few
seconds or muscle twitching at the left side of the chest, sweaty hands, strong heartbeat.
6) I would panic if someone were to talk to me initially for awhile.So that's all, and it is all real. I am seeing a psychologist this Friday so I am just sort of preparing myself for the worst ;D
A
you are asocial.
You don't trust everything/body else(I think)I read this in a book of Stieg Larsson (the girl who played with fire).
There was also a guy who was social handicapped
U
Replying to #2
Hmm... Maybe ;D I also thought I may have social phobia...
A
Replying to #3
yes,
that could be true.
A forum is social too, but nobody can see you
U
Replying to #4
Yes, and I am perfectly normal in cyper world ;D
A
I have all except number 5.Talk to more people.
A
You just hate everyone.
N
you're just weird, no need to worry.
M
I bet "change" is a challenge for you as well?
M
My guess is your just really shy and have no confidence.
I also used to hate talking on the phone to strangers, and what you said about people looking at you making you feel uneasy.
I also used to stay indoors and play games and never go out.Do something to raise your confidence, take up martial arts, join a gym, get laid or whatever
R
You're not asocial, that's when you impede people. Just face your fears. I did the same. When someone looked at me i just looked straight in her/his eyes. Most times i heard:'hey jerk, why are you looking at me.' then i just answer politely:'because, it just happened'. I did all kinds of stuff like this. I was 12 years old when i did that, people thought I was pathetic. But it helped me, also made some friends with it O_o. I don't think the psychologist is going to help you, you're just facin' a psycho. So like msg said, do something to raise your confidence. I'm sure that the cure is somewhere in your head.
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AUTISM
P
Social anxiety, my good man. From the sound of it you're having panic attacks.Unfortunately staying inside only feeds it and makes it worse, though.
S
I feel odd talking to people too.
When people come at my doorstep, usually a salesman, I always shout
"GET THE HELL OUT. IM NOT GONNA GIVE YOU MY MONEY"
K
You seem like the type of person known in Japan as a Hikikomori. Just a little less extreme.
http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/HikikomoriCareful, it's a Tvtropes link. You probably might not want to get caught in it's wonderful, intriguing trap. XD
U
Wow, I have some confidence issues but its not that bad.
I could talk to you over skype or something if you like. Incase you want to get over your phobia.
U
It really is bad ;(
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Kitsune_Fly · #15Careful, it's a Tvtropes link.
Looks like I'm not sleeping tonight. Or going to uni tomorrow.
Anyway you're just socially inept and panicking because of it. Chill the fuck out, man.
U
Replying to #18
But I am okay sometimes and sometimes I am not ...
N
Like I said, you're just weird.DON'T PANIC
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