How to be not shy anymore?

Take a big breath before you do it
Trust it helps, + ask friends that are bold e.t.c

Awesome thread. Anyway, listen to Suis and Uber.

[quote="CoolKill3r"]Just go and do it!
Like if you see a girl or something that you wanna ask something, just do it .
if you do it will be easier next time![b]Remember! The longer you have this, the harder it will be when your older and have a job ect.[/quote]Just remember what i said earlier.

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Shyguy

Jonez001Then explain why I got 4 girlfriends in the past!

4? xd*loughs out loud* >:D

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so how many girlfriends did you have?

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eh... boyfriends do you mean! SHE is a girl...

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Maybe he was just thinking out loud.....

I had enough boyfriends ;)and I didn't laugh because it's 'only' 4,
I just don't believe it :P ( I know him for about 7 years)

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So he's a virgin? ;)

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yes

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Ok :)
So is he shy because he's really ugly or something? Or is it just a confidence thing?

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I don't knowI never saw him shy before...edit: I don't think he's ugly (oh, and I DON'T love him :P)

Jonez001 · #86eh... boyfriends do you mean! SHE is a girl...

I know.

.... OKay, aren't we going off topic?

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No i was trying to understand why you were shy :P

have you tried talking to people, overcome your fears and all that bs.also; TO BEAT SHY, FIRST YOU MUST BECOME SHY.

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I don't get it

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I think he means: You can't fully help a shy people when you never have been shy.That is like to help a drunk without never been drunk. You can't help him or her fully

Jonez001After a long time thinking I made the dis scions of looking for help.
I am too f*cking shy and I don't want to be anymore.E.g.:- I don't dare to talk to a girl (such a shame...)
- I don't dare to talk to someone if they aren't in a big group.
- In a big group I don't talk at all. I avoid it!
- When I go to a new group: eg. a new class, where I don't know anyone, I am too afraid to talk...Well, it has much to do with my past... yeah bulling ... but now it is 10 years later and I am a boy of 17 years old! So I don't want to be shy anymore!To start I do a vacation job which resembles like scouts but daily and the whole day. For dutch people: Speelplein! And i am going to start doing scouts again soon.But what are other tips to end shyness? Yup, this is a personal topic but hey: HELP A HUY OUT WILL YA?
Questions about me, post them. If they are to personal I don't answer or answer via a pm!Thanks for the help already!

You probably over think things. As bad as it sounds, you should just stop thinking things through so much. Or instead of thinking how people can use things against you and how you can be hurt, think of how you can please others.Or you know. . . SMOKE WEED ALL DAY ERRY DAY

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qtf! ^^