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msgSo hiding away from people and been scared to go somewhere because the bullys go there makes you more confident naturally?As tehuber said "some people aren't confident enough to gain more confidence."
No he needs to get out there and get some confidence before he ends up a middle aged virgin that just sits indoors in internet chat rooms.
frebels*checks msg's post count...*oh shit.....found out....
tehuber1337 · #62Twisting my words like that doesn't make it a good idea to just sit back and hope for the best. Take the initiative like a man.Being like a man doesn't solve everything.
msg2009 · #63oh shit.....found out....Still owned ? :(
ok I admit it, Im really a 14y/o virgin and have never seen a gym before.
tehuber1337 · #65Not being "like" a man, no.I get it now. Do it like a man.Let me rephrase one of my posts.
Cookie-MonsterDoing it like a man doesn't solve everything.
Suiseiseki · #69We're arguing with a 14 year old who probably hasn't even touched a girl before. I'll break it down so it's crystal clear.It's a matter of growing some balls and growing up enough to realise you can't sit back and wait for shit to happen. You've got to make it happen. If you're not making it happen, you don't deserve it in the first place. To stop being shy you need to put yourself out there, out of the comfort zone. To get a girl you need to just go right up to her and ask. To become an awesome person you need to start acting like one.Maybe when you get older you'll figure it out for yourself.Where i live isn't the most friendly place to be, atleast i was taken the mic out of a couple times a day because i was different which made me less confident.Nearly asked someone out before the summer holidays but got interupted by someone, also she was in a bit of a hurry and left but i'll probably see her after the holidays so you can't say i'm that shy or whatever.
Jonez001After a long time thinking I made the dis scions of looking for help.my advice, stand up if you want to be seen & speak out if you want to be heard otherwise just STFU ppl will appreciated you
I am too f*cking shy and I don't want to be anymore.E.g.:- I don't dare to talk to a girl (such a shame...)
- I don't dare to talk to someone if they aren't in a big group.
- In a big group I don't talk at all. I avoid it!
- When I go to a new group: eg. a new class, where I don't know anyone, I am too afraid to talk...Well, it has much to do with my past... yeah bulling ... but now it is 10 years later and I am a boy of 17 years old! So I don't want to be shy anymore!To start I do a vacation job which resembles like scouts but daily and the whole day. For dutch people: Speelplein! And i am going to start doing scouts again soon.But what are other tips to end shyness? Yup, this is a personal topic but hey: HELP A HUY OUT WILL YA?
Questions about me, post them. If they are to personal I don't answer or answer via a pm!Thanks for the help already!
drybones41 · #72Where i live isn't the most friendly place to be, atleast i was taken the mic out of a couple times a day because i was different which made me less confident.Nearly asked someone out before the summer holidays but got interupted by someone, also she was in a bit of a hurry and left but i'll probably see her after the holidays so you can't say i'm that shy or whatever.Deal with it.
