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it has 7 pins with a big gap on top like figure 1 and a lil one on botom

i drew it out to try help yes the top 4 pins are smaller then the bottem 3http://s648.photobucket.com/albums/uu206/lolfasewat/

that seems to be a proprietary connector that carries both svideo and composite as far as I can make out (I don't know what the cable you've got does in that case) and you should be able to make a cable fairly easily (or have one made). here are the pinouts of that connector: http://pinouts.ru/Video/svideo_7pin_pinout.shtml. the page suggests that a standard svideo plug may fit.

Looks like it's a 7 pin mini din connector. http://felizk.dk/wp/wp-content/uploads/WindowsLiveWriter/DellXPSm1710_F1F1/Minidin77.gifSo you'll need something like this:
http://www.amazon.com/Video-CARD-Mini-Adapter-Radeon/dp/B001TKK7GC/ref=sr_1_7?ie=UTF8&s=miscellaneous&qid=1237732808&sr=8-7Just be careful of the 7 pin configuration, some have the large rectangular pin in the center rather than the top.