Right path yet still no mem file..

I seem to be having a problem that others had on here awhile back.. I seen this forum
http://forum.romulation.net/index.php?topic=11500.0However i tried all that.. I have only one spot where the epsxe was downloaded and it was in downloads.. I use that as the path and go into the mem card and all the files there is erase.me
I've searched everywhere else for any other game location and can't find one.

you have to manually set the path even if it's correct. That causes the files to be created.

I'm not sure what you mean? manually set the path? I go into to configuration and i click the mem card and go through my computer files to get to the mem card and still doesn't work. If you mean in another way.. well then i'm lost.