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databankI'd prefer never to have s**never have sex? never ever?? really??
but to choose an option, get married first.
databankYeap, I'm seriousYou cant!
databankYeap, I'm seriousoh...why??
databankI just don't have an interest in it even thoughThis means you should be interested in it.
I am at the age were people normally would.
databankI just don't have an interest in it even thoughjust wait a few years ;)
I am at the age were people normally would.
databankAlright Sylky :)I do not have a word to say.
Although I am already nearly 17
databankAlright Sylky :)17 :o :o omg you'll be a virgin for ever!!!!just kidding :P you'll have sex when you're ready. i guess you have other interests now nothing wrong with that
Although I am already nearly 17
mds64 · #73I skipped the post just to say my view...Marraige first-makes the love more worth it :)Think about it-if all your partner wants is sex then they may dump you once they find your weak points...Plus if your not ready to have kids...why risk it?Kissing and "baby" ie hugging things are fine...but no further...even if your sure she's the "one"...Is I ever got a GF and she complained that I never slept with her...that's her fault I dump her I reckon-patients is a virtue...but no "quikie" marriges XDNot ending up like my parents-shot gun wedding-not happy ethier of them-only together because me and my bro need support in this dark times...No, not really. For some girls losing their virginity is one of the most painful things right before child birth. It hurt like hell for me, I did NOT like the first time for the pleasure, the intimacy was nice but was clouded by the fact that it hurt and my husband (boyfriend at the time) did not enjoy it either since he saw I was in pain.So? That person is in a relationship for the wrong reasons, dump their ass, or go with it. Like sex and relationships, practice makes perfect.There are tons of methods for birth control, look it up, if you're that scared use two forms (condom and the pill/whatever). Or use more, there are a lot of ways for birth control. If you're also that paranoid, get a vasectomy, or get the tubes tied, although the last two are probably a bit too harsh for a boyfriend/girlfriend scenario.Sex for me is sort of a bond between two people. An emotional AND physical connection, with an extreme amount of intimacy even if the sex is good or bad (is there such thing as bad sex?), although this is only possible in a relationship. And to be honest, by the end of the night, without that connection, it'd feel kind of.. empty, kind of. Sex reminds me of golden silence. The powerful feelings of love are there with a lot more going on than realized.Everyone who supports the idea of marriage before sex seems to bring up the idea that the first time, IT'S GOING TO BE SO AMAZING or more meaningful.WRONG. It won't. It'll probably be a let down. The guy will probably have the sexual stamina so that you can make love for five minutes, that and depending on the girl, sex will probably be painful for her. Intimacy is there, but that's about it. My husband and I's first time sucked, yes, it was cute, but it sucked. Every other time we did it, it was about ten times better than the first time. Practice makes perfect, it still holds true even for sex. Sex isn't more or less meaningful as the first compared to the thousandth time, just like kids (the first kid is just as meaningful as the second kid), or kisses.When we got married, we went to our honeymoon. Best sex ever, but it only came with practice.inb4 tmi Natalie.