not sure what im doing wrong

I just purchased my first r4 card for my nintendo ds. I use the old blocky ds (bought it as soon as it came out) if that matters. The r4 card I bought was from dinodirect. Here is a link to it http://www.dinodirect.com/R4I-SDHC-Upgrade-Revolution-Multimedia-Flash-Card-for-NDSi-NDS-DS-Lite.html. I have a 4 GB SanDisk microSDHC card that I am trying to use with it. I think I bought it from bestbuy. Anyways, I have no idea what to install on my micro sd card to get games on it to work. The micro SD card has absolutely nothing installed on it right now. I have tried downloading the kernel (not sure if it was the right one for my card or not) but when I put the r4 into my ds, the ds says there is no DS Card inserted. Sorry if this post is really confusing but I wasn't really sure how to word everything :P. Thanks for any help !

is the r4 (with the micro sd card) in your ds when you turn it on

Yes it is :). I'm not that stupid :P.

Is it an R4I or R4 you use.
The normal R4 can't run any R4i kernels.

Download R4-English 1.08b from http://www.r4i-dshc.com/downloade.asp and copy all the files to the MicroSD.
Then download games to your card. Happy Playing :)PS: OMGWTF.... I knew there was a R4 SDHC, but I didn't knew there was a R4i SDHC Upgrade Revolution :o

When I try to download R4-English 1.08b it brings me to an error page http://440729.87.webhosting-test.com/English_v1.24.rar. Also I think it is a R4i card because on the card it says R4i (the i is in a little bubble above the R4 part) 1.4v.