Need Help with R4i Card!!! HELP~

Ok, Long story, I downloaded the files needed for the micro sd card. I downloaded a couple games, dragged and dropped them into a folder names Games on my sd card. Put the sd card into my R4 card, put it into my DS and all it does is sit there with black screens, with the word Loading... on the top screen.What am I doing wrong? :'( I have downloaded the 2 other programs that are needed to unzip the games or whatever.
I dont know what to do..
Is there anyone that can talk me thru this on the phone or yahoo messenger??Please, I am willing to pay alittle thru Paypal for the help!!! :'( :'( :'( :'(

maybe u downloaded the wrong files. there are different types of "r4's" out there. check on your box or wat ever and maybe theres a website on it

copy the following address and search it up http://filetrip.net/f10373-Wood-R4-1-05.html