looking for oldish turn-based (j?)rpg for ds

I was introduced to this game ages ago checked it out and thought "eh maybe later" (had just played a bunch of turn-based games). I suddenly remembered it and now have an insatiable desire to play it! I have litterally looked for a ridiculous number of hours for it online and had no success in finding the game. all i can remember is....
-turn based strategy game
-could be a guy or girl main character (both were kinda cutesy looking)
-there was this white haired demon dude with demon wings who was sarcastic, liked dumplings? (or something like that), and was sharing your body?
-your female childhood friend was one of your party members
-at the end of the game the female main character could romance the demon dude
Now I realize the chances of anyone actually knowing the game from this description is slim but.....IM DESPERATE HERE please help me!

hmmm you should try the new ragnarok tactics game for psp :o if you like turn based style xD also not sure about that game but sounds familiar. btw inb4 i upload a huge amount of rpgs so not sure if people play them anymore....

I know a game that meets that criteria except it was a PS2 game.The one that comes to mind is called Soul Nomad.

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yess!!!!!! thats the one :) you dont know how happy i am right now!!!! the fact that it is for ps2 shows how little i know buuuttt regardless im going to play it. thank you so much reider elymasti

Now I want to try this game, hehe.

Haha, I downloaded this just to see what it was. Seems like another Nippon Ichi Disgaea-esque title.