damanaliShame, if you don't die of embarrassment, you die literally.Or he had a spare life.
If that guy survive the hanging, then that's the ultimate shame.
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damanaliShame, if you don't die of embarrassment, you die literally.Or he had a spare life.
If that guy survive the hanging, then that's the ultimate shame.
SuiseisekiFurther to that, many times when a Japanese guy gets a job he's in the company for life, making his way up the ladder. They don't switch jobs like we do, so the possibility of being fired could mean you're unemployed for the rest of your life.well unlike the west, in japan you need to take test to even get the job additional to the interview. and from what i heard there is 3 level of tests, and those who pass level 3 get an interview.thats why when they get a job, they work til they got fired or retired.in the west, you just go for an interview and talk about how much you want to work and what you know.
Believe me when I say it's not nearly like what you think it is.
rpgirlTwo Asean countries that are more prone to committing suicide are Japan and Korea. During the old days shame, humiliation and practically anything that is out of the usual may lead one to kill himself/herself. This is believed to save face and honor but these days, death is still an option because of the past history and mainly because of the stress. I have love the Japanese culture due to over exposure on gaming but I feel awful about suicide methods and knowing so many of them kill themselves. I really feel sorry for them.:(I myself know nothing of their cultures, but it sounds like to me that they are torn between the ideas of traditional values and modern ones that causes a collision of ones habits to change his or her mind. Psychologically the person who committed this suicide did not have the willpower to continue moving forward or thought of getting his sorry behind somewhere far from there into another country. I mean he must have had a degree, so why not go to some other country as a foreign translator or something.
LoonylionI imagine that considering the emphasis the japanese place on honour, getting fired must be a pretty big dishonour for a personThis and may be their way of taking things way beyond to a point of obsession---once a person is obsessed with an idea of honor I guess he lost sight of what was really bitter in the end. I would see the resemblence in an analogy where if he were a samurai his dishonor would have to resolve to dismemberment and in modern days he would just jump off a building hoping he gets a 1-UP FTW along the way.What in the world!? That's like-----totally not cool bro...
redoperator · #26Where everything from bowing to talking has to be perfect (I would see my Japanese neighbor practicing bowing and reciting what he has to say, over and over again).Yep I remember a huge outcry when the Toyota problems first came to light, because at the press conference they called to apologise to their customers, Mr. Toyoda did not bow low enough; which lead people to claim his apology was not sincere.