Is it wrong for a 14 year old boy to be dating a 11 year old girl?

RenaldoTThaving a child won't ruin your life though just make things a bit more complicated.

it wouldve ruined my life at 14!!! i *thank god i havent spawned a lil demon of my own and im sure all of you do too ;)

don't really know i do remember getting a text message saying fwd if you think age is just a number and should not get in the way of love but since i regard chain messages as crap i don't know what to think

markswanYeah, it's true that whomever you lose your virginity to may not care about you as much as you care about them. That's a potentially a risk with everyone you have sex with, at any age. I notice that you single out girls for sleeping around. So what if people want to sleep around? We're young, we want to make the best of it. Some people sleep around to the point that they lose self-worth in their own eyes and demean themselves (that's true for men as well as women, but men tend to be more resilient for this as we tend to value the physical pleasure higher than emotional pleasure).

Sleeping around is pretty cool. Don't see what the whole "demeaning" thing is, if sex is such a natural thing.

markswanAlso, adults may become addicted to sex too. Having sex often doesn't make you an addict.

Woo.

of course there is nothing demening about sex, but having sex comes with responsibility, its fun until you knock up a girl at a very young age, with no stable job, income, home, or even relationship, so how are you going to take the responsibility of raising a child with none of these, yeah, some may say love, but love doenst feed babies...

Are the parents of those 2 knows that their children are going out? If they did, i don't believe they will allow it to continue. And if they knew those 2 are thinking of having sex, i believe the parents will have a nice long talk with those 2.I always believe that if you want to have a relationship, you should always tell it to you're parents. I know many will tell me, thats what a mama's boy would do... But i do see lots of couple having a huge problem with their in-laws....

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I wouldn't say that's a mama's boy thing. It's different and wouldn't hurt so it's good advice. Parents usually know best and are their to guide and protect. So yea good advice.

God people, be more uptight. its only wrong if someone is OBVIOUSLY taking advantage of someone younger in any way, but if they really just want to hang out and be all PG-13 who cares? I for one was more mature than many 20 year olds that i know now when i was 11/12... Besides, so young, a "relationship", if you can even call it that, most likely wont last long. As long as theyre not being explicitly sexual its not a big deal. However, it'd be pretty wrong if they were. Kids should be chasing butterflies and learning the hazards of traffic before they start to even think about how the plug fits in the outlet...And someone explain this, IMMENSE gap in maturity between a 14 and 12 year old...a pube? I added more to my collective knowledge of everything between the ages of 18 and 19 than I did between birth and 17... Let the youngins be, better they're dating than growing up to be as politically correct as the current "new parent" generation is.Not only that, if the GIRL was 14 and the boy was 12, AND they were having sex where would they stand then? I bet the majority of you wouldn't think that was so wrong.

I really don't give a fuck what they do, its on their hands, not ours. We forget that what we deem as wrong has been the norm for thousands of years... a couple of centuries ago, britain and other eastern countries actually wanted their children to marry as soon as possible, because they only lived to the age of 50.but now we have people saying that is wrong, well they can go suck my dick. as long as they're not breaking the law and not having a pregnancy, I and the rest of us have no right to fuck with that.

ApocalypticaGoddamn and I thought I was having enough trouble with my 15yr old wanting to date 20+ old guys or the other way around we already kicked one guy out of the house when I found out he was 25
Told her when she is 18+ she can do what she wishes, but I'll be damned if its going to happen under my roof!

What if she does an Anna Nicole Smith and dates some old 80+ man?

LittlekillA previous moderator who will not be named is dating a 12 year old girl, and hes 17. He's also a very weird person. Talking about Cameron by the way.

...Disturbing fact.

TirithRRI don't know if anyone has said this before, but:Half your age plus seven.
Apply the formula to both parties, if it works, it's ok. If it doesn't work, it's not ok.

Let's see, 22, 11+7=18Damn :([me=hYpNoS]is not happy with his results but now the point is clear to him[/me]

TirithRRI don't know if anyone has said this before, but:Half your age plus seven.
Apply the formula to both parties, if it works, it's ok. If it doesn't work, it's not ok.

then the little fella can only date people from his own age and older
14/2=7
7+7= 14 haha

The reason why I avoid going too close to girls in school. Their 'freaking porn addicts.

you think that's bad? top this:i went to a religious school a while back and saw a bunch of students playing STRIP poker

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I don't know what it is, but it sounds bad.

its like poker, but instead of betting cash, you are forced to undo a button.by the end of the game one girl had already took off her skirt...

Suiseiseki · #63Sleeping around is pretty cool. Don't see what the whole "demeaning" thing is, if sex is such a natural thing.

Which is why I said "some people" and not "everyone".

Suiseiseki · #63Woo.

Hoo.

DevilDinah · #74its like poker, but instead of betting cash, you are forced to undo a button.by the end of the game one girl had already took off her skirt...

Not as bad as my classmates... You've never seen them... Friggin porn addicts, doing odd stuff.

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...alot of the people I know in (no offence) asian Countries keep complaining about having porn addicted friends/class mates.My mates are better-they just get real sex...I wish they stop telling me is all ::)

I like porn, and my girlfriend is 7 years younger than me.
do i have a problem?

not really, unless if you're 15 and your gf is 8we need to talk....want some candy?

here's your teddy bear, now lets talk about marriage