I would like to know how to upload Ds/Psp Roms

I asked this question before,but I cant remember what I was advised,but I think it was a complicated procedure.
I dont know if Seph can get the Ds roms onto this site before Amazon deliver the Roms to me Ive ordered,but I did get a request from another forum member once for a Rom I had,but I didnt know how to get it to her/here.

http://www.monroeworld.com/myfaq/index.php?action=artikel&cat=7&id=85&artlang=enSee that guide.

Thanks Seph.[A working wifi connection that you've tried with homebrew software]That is the bit I dont understand.All Ive done with the Dslite is use an r4cart/3 in 1 flash.