I need help! All AOE: II braniacs welcome

Me and my cousin both have AOE II, and we wanted to try playing with eachother online.
I have no clue whatsoever on how to do this, so I was wondering if any AOE II players could help me. Thanks!

Wow this sucks nowone is helpin me :'( :'( :'(
OK could someone lock this plz?

It's strange that AOE 2 is my favorite game of all time, I put at least 1000 hours into it between the ages of 6 and 10 and I still haven't tried a multiplayer game.