Gold R4 card and DS XL

Good evening
I purchased the DS XL on Friday and ordered a new gold R4 card to use, could someone please tell me what I need to download to use on the XL, as I have tried my old R4 card and no joy but I epected that, anyway I need to know what files to download for operating and also for the cheat device.
Thanks

If your card does not say "Compatible with DSi 1.4" then it will most likely not work on your new XL. Try the new iEdge or AceKard 2i.

You will need a DSi compatible flash cart to use on your DSiXL, if you're card is DSi compatible please post its exact name and the website that was found on the box so I can find its update software.