What is your basic budget? Because I can list gaming laptops from $1200 to $3000!
Hmmm, no Alienware...Anyway's I suggest you to invest in a SONY VAIO F-Series Laptop. (I'm still working on using BB Codes)
It can play Blu-Rays, 3-hour battery life but the power adapter is a brick, different screen sizes, a keyboard that lights up, webcam (standard).For $1499, you can get a Intel Core i7 on it! Holy crap! But hold on there! It starts at $999! But you can customize it!Here is the "up to" list (from: http://www.sonystyle.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/CategoryDisplay?catalogId=10551&storeId=10151&langId=-1&categoryId=8198552921644691998#overview)Specs:Intel® Core™ i7-820QM Processor (1.73GHz) available with up to 3.06GHz available with Turbo Boost Technology (which costs $300 more)
Up to 8GB of DDR3 RAM
16.4 inch screen
up to a 640GB HHD (or a 512GB SDD)
NVIDIA 1GB VRAM Graphics Card (which was a must for you)
it weighs 6.9 lbs.But you might wan to updrade/customize some stuff.Most expensive one that I customized had 8GB DDR3 RAM, Core i7 @ 1.7 GHz with 3GHz on Turbo, Win7 Ultimate 64-bit, 256GB SSD (get rid of this and $620 for a 320GB HHD), Blu-Ray player/burner(save $180 without it at all), no MS Office 2007 or Anti-Virus!It was $2734.99!!!!!1Holy crap, that is a lot of money! It depends on you on what you want and your budget, etc. Chances are, you wouldn't buy a gaming laptop that is $2734.99! Or this one at least.